Chapter 178 Chen Ping's Theory

After a long period of contact, their perception of the three boys was not bad.

But the most surprising thing is that the three girls in Gao Leyao's dormitory and the three boys in Chen Ping's dormitory have the most frequent contact with Li Tianhai and Liu Xiaoman.

Regarding this matter, Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao were also puzzled.

The three of them each chose a goal of their own, and there was not much conflict.

Liu Xiaoman and the three girls, although they are not as good as Gao Leyao and Lin Yuwei in appearance, they can definitely be regarded as beauties.

If they can really pursue their respective goals, Xiao Jingxuan and the three of them can be considered balanced.

But what Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao couldn't figure out anyway was the little fat man Li Tianhai. It seems to be the quickest to start.

Recently, the relationship between Li Tianhai and Liu Xiaoman has become more and more close. Almost every night, they send each other text messages for half a day, and even make occasional phone calls.

On the contrary, Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao, and the other two girls, were not so closely related.

Regarding this phenomenon, Chen Ping was also extremely speechless in his heart. He couldn't figure out why this happened?

Chen Ping's emotional intelligence can only be regarded as normal, not a type of person with high emotional intelligence at all. It is precisely because of this that Chen Ping has almost never been in love in his previous life.

It was also after the rebirth that she had a girlfriend named Lin Yuwei. Chen Ping didn't know much about the relationship between men and women.

So I can't figure out why the relationship between Li Tianhai and Liu Xiaoman is progressing faster than Xiao Jingxuan and the others.

After all, Li Tianhai's own conditions were slightly worse than those of Xiao Jingxuan and the others.

Especially in terms of appearance, although Li Tianhai is not ugly, his figure is a bit bloated after all. Compared to Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao, it is still a bit worse.

But he was able to make the relationship between him and Liu Xiaoman so hot at the fastest speed, which is really confusing.

Even looking at this trend, it won't take long for Liu Xiaoman to become Li Tianhai's girlfriend.

For the roommate about to find a girlfriend,

Chen Ping is naturally happy to see it happen.

Occasionally when they returned to the dormitory, Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao talked about this to Chen Ping. Although they looked indignant, Chen Ping could also see that the two were also sincerely wishing Li Tianhai.

However, after returning to the dormitory that day, Chen Ping found that Li Tianhai, a little fat man who used to laugh every day, was sitting on his bed with a frowning face, not knowing what he was thinking.

Zhou Haomiao and Xiao Jingxuan were not in the dormitory, so Chen Ping could only sit down beside Li Tianhai, and then asked softly, "Tianhai, what happened? Tell me and see if I can help. Did you solve it?"

Li Tianhai looked up at Chen Ping, then sighed softly, smiled helplessly, and said softly, "It's nothing, but I'm worried about how to confess to Xiaoman..."

Hearing this, Chen Ping's eyes lit up slightly, and then he asked softly in surprise, "The relationship between the two of you has progressed so quickly? Are you going to start confessing now?"

Li Tianhai nodded lightly, and after hesitating for a moment, a smug look appeared on his face, and he said softly with a smile: "That's natural, don't think I'm not as good as the three of you, but talk about it. The means of chasing girls, at least Xiao Jingxuan and the two of them have absolutely no way to compare with me!"

Chen Ping also raised his brows slightly, glanced at the smug little fat man with a half-smile, and then asked casually, "Then tell me, do you have any way of chasing girls? My two moves?"

Li Tianhai rolled his eyes immediately, glanced at Chen Ping angrily, and said helplessly softly, "Do you still need to learn from me? You already have a sister-in-law, so it's hard to think that you want to pedal two boats. Chen Ping, I can tell you, if you really do this, I will have to doubt your character! Although we are in the same dormitory, but if your character is not good, no matter what your identity is, we will My friends can't do it!"

Chen Ping also smiled bitterly, then slapped Li Tianhai violently, and said softly, "What nonsense are you talking about? I just want to help you with your staff. If you don't need it, I don't care."

Having said that, Chen Ping was about to stand up.

When Li Tianhai heard this, he hurriedly grabbed Chen Ping's arm, and then said softly with a wry smile, "I'm not just joking? Don't worry!"

Chen Ping sat down with a little laugh, and then said softly: "Okay, if there is any problem, you can tell me, although I'm not very good at chasing girls, but at least I can help you. , to see which aspects of your preparation are insufficient."

Li Tianhai nodded immediately. In Li Tianhai's opinion, Chen Ping can catch up with Lin Yuwei, and the means of picking up girls is naturally unquestionable. If Chen Ping helps him, the probability of him catching up with Liu Xiaoman will also be great. promote.

This is also the reason why Li Tianhai and Xiao Jingxuan stayed together for a long time, but did not discuss this matter with them.

After all, in Li Tianhai's opinion, although Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao looked a little more handsome than him, their emotional intelligence was not enough.

Especially in terms of chasing girls, I'm afraid it's not as good as me, it's useless to discuss with them.

On the contrary, it is Chen Ping, who has such a beautiful girlfriend as Lin Yuwei, at least in terms of chasing girls, Chen Ping should still have a hand.

Li Tianhai also directly stated his concerns: "My relationship with Xiaoman has been pretty good recently, and we have been in touch almost every day, but I really don't know if she likes me, after all, the two of us When we chat, it’s all over the world, and I’ve never talked about emotional issues, so now I’m really not sure.”

"If I confess to Liu Xiaoman, will she be able to accept me? If she can't accept it, wouldn't I have no chance at all? I don't even have to be friends!"

Chen Ping rolled his eyes and said without hesitation, "Why do you think so much about the future? Although I don't know the relationship between you and Liu Xiaoman, I can probably see it."

"I can give you an analysis of the current relationship between the two of you, and you can think about it for yourself."

"The relationship between the two of you is not bad now, at least you can be regarded as good friends. Even if the two of you didn't talk about emotional issues during the chat, at least she already has a certain understanding of you. , and after she got to know you, she did not alienate you because of it, which shows that she still recognizes you as a person, which is already a prerequisite for developing feelings."

"And since the relationship between the two of you has reached this point, if you don't confess, you can only be friends forever, and it's impossible to take another step forward. Could it be that you still expect Liu Xiaoman to take the initiative to tell you Can't you confess?"

Li Tianhai shook his head with a wry smile. Naturally, he did not have such expectations. The probability of letting a girl take the initiative to confess to him is too low and too low.

Then Chen Ping continued to speak softly: "And after you confessed to her, there are only two possibilities. If the confession is successful, Liu Xiaoman is naturally your girlfriend. Of course, there is no need to say more."

"But if your confession fails, it doesn't mean that you don't have a chance. After all, the two of you are not just friends, but classmates. You can't see each other when you look down. Even if she rejects you, she will inevitably have something else with you. contact in terms of.”

"Even after she rejects you, you can continue to work hard. Maybe the contact time will be longer, and she will like you more. The next time you confess, maybe you can succeed."

"Even if it makes the relationship between the two of you a little bit apart, it's not necessarily a bad thing."

"It's been less than three months since the start of school, and you and Liu Xiaoman haven't known each other for a long time. The feelings you have invested in her are not too deep. Although you like her, it is far from unforgettable. Love, so even if you withdraw now, it is not too much harm to you."

"Even if she rejects you, and the relationship between the two of you is completely estranged, you only need to adjust your state for a short time, and you won't be hurt too badly."

"But if you continue to hesitate, the longer it goes, the deeper your affection for Liu Xiaoman will be. If you are rejected by her again, it will be a huge blow to you!"

Hearing Chen Ping say this, Li Tianhai was completely lost in thought.

I have to say that what Chen Ping said is somewhat reasonable, and it is also very realistic.

Although it sounds a bit unpleasant, it seems that in terms of emotions, you have to care about your own investment, but in fact, this is the most rational approach.

As Chen Ping said, the contact time is too long and the feelings invested too much. Once rejected by the other party, it is very likely to be greatly hurt.

It's better to start confessing immediately after contacting for a period of time, after confirming that you like each other.

In this way, it can also give the two parties a chance to really contact as lovers. Before both parties have invested too much in their feelings, it is also the most sensible way to confirm whether the two parties can really reach the end. come too much damage.

Although Chen Ping has never been in love in his previous life, his life experience is much more abundant than that of ordinary people. Although Chen Ping has not personally experienced emotional matters in his previous life, he has seen too many examples.

In Chen Ping's view, this approach is the most correct.

Of course, this is just the view of Chen Ping alone, and it does not mean that such a view is necessarily correct.

Chen Ping in his previous life had seen many such examples.

Some lovers start dating when they have known each other for a month or two, and contact each other as real lovers. In this way, they will have a deeper understanding of the other party and be able to know whether the other party is the most suitable person for them. .

And because the time of acquaintance is not too long, even if they start to fall in love, the two will not pay a substantial price.