179: Xia Dajun Bears the Burden of Humiliation (4 More)
Xia Dajun also recognized the boy in front of him, wasn't he the one who wrote the divorce papers for him and Liu Fen that day?
Xia Dajun almost couldn't hold back his beating, he squeezed his fists, wanting to teach Chen Qing a lesson. This is not Qijing Village, and a group of people can run out to help Chen Qing beat him?
...but this is the county No. 1 middle school.
Principal Sun was still sitting on the stage, and if he saw him hitting someone, he would definitely not help him persuade Liu Fen.
Zi Yu said that this is called "bearing humiliation and bearing the burden", and he was able to make Liu Fen remarry him by holding back his temper for a while. Xia Ziyu carefully explained to him what "bearing humiliation and bearing the burden" means, and Xia Dajun felt that he was bearing humiliation and bearing the burden. He didn't care about the mother and daughter generously, and according to his niece, he wanted to give them enough face and let them go down the steps. Isn't it sincere enough.
In the past few months, no one has washed and cooked for him, and he has come home from working outside for a few months. He has taken off his dirty clothes, and he can't find a clean one after rummaging through boxes and cabinets. Don't worry about whether he is full or not. Madam Xia only cares about coaxing money. Zhang Cui and Wang Jingui are sisters-in-law and younger siblings. Who can come out and care about him?
Xia Dajun felt that a man should have a wife. If he can't lay eggs, he can do laundry and cook for him, and he can sleep with him at night.
What's more, the money-losing goods that Liu Fen gave birth to before turned out to be profitable. Xia Dajun is the person with the best face. In the past, he was afraid of being told behind his back that he had no son to die. If Xia Xiaolan could be admitted to a university and a daughter of a college student, who would dare to laugh at him for not having a son in the village?
If he has a son, he is not as good as his daughter if he cannot go to university.
He is willing to accept Liu Fen and his daughter again, and he is determined to treat the mother and daughter better in the future. If Xia Xiaolan was to be admitted to the university, he would have to pay for it. If his niece could go to school, of course his daughter could go to school too. Zi Yu is right, his wife is not for beating. Liu Fen is different from other women in the village. She has already run away once... These words rolled in his heart, and Xia Dajun resisted the urge to beat people. .
"I'm Xia Xiaolan's biological father, why can't I come?"
Chen Qing wanted to ask a few classmates to help and twist Xia Dajun out. Why didn't Xiaolan say that she was nicer to her when she was at Xia's house, but this time she said it was her biological father! He decided that Xia Dajun was here to make trouble, and the Xia family was very bad. Someone who claimed to be Xiaolan's cousin came to him to speak ill of Xiaolan, and Xiaolan's cousin took the object she stole from Xiaolan to show off, Not to mention Xiaolan's own grandmother, Chen Wangda went to Dahe Village to transfer the household registration for the mother and daughter, saying that she had never seen such a sloppy old woman!
"Xiaolan didn't let you come, you can't be here!"
Before Chen Qing pushed Xia Dajun away, the school leader on the podium said "Hello" twice:
"Parents, hurry up and find your child's class, take a seat, our meeting is about to start, everyone's time is very precious, and the time of the candidates is even more precious..."
"Chen Qing, please arrange for this parent to sit down."
Teacher Qi is responsible for maintaining the order of Class 3. The leader said that at the beginning, she found that there were still people standing.
In front of the entire auditorium, parents and teachers were watching, and they couldn't talk about Xia Xiaolan's housework. Chen Qing forced Xia Dajun to sit in the back row. He was afraid of Xia Dajun hitting people, so he separated Xia Dajun and Liu Fen as far as possible.
Xia Dajun sat down and called "A Fen" in a buzzing voice. Liu Fen was actually very scared, but she couldn't let Xia Dajun see it.
There are local dogs everywhere in the countryside. If you are accidentally chased by a dog, you cannot run at this time. If you run away, you will tell the dog that you are afraid of it, and it will become more aggressive. To squat down to pick up rocks and hit it, throw things at it, stomp and scream and bluff to scare it!
Isn't Xia Dajun a vicious dog?
Now Liu Fen doesn't tell Xia Xiaolan "that's your dad" or "he still loves you". She found that Xia Xiaolan didn't need Xia Dajun's "love" and left the Xia family, whether it was Xia Xiaolan or she could live well Better and happier.
During the Chinese New Year, the family gathered together in a friendly manner, chatting and laughing and making dumplings. After eating the dumplings, the table was cleared. Xia Xiaolan put out the New Year's goods sent by Zhou Cheng. This kind of picture, Liu Fen has been married to the Xia family for 20 years. Never experienced it.
She always looked down on her and scolded her for wasting her mother-in-law.
Always thinking of taking advantage, and even running on her sister-in-law if she takes advantage.
There is also money to spend for the niece, so that the daughter is dying and has no money to go to the hospital, only the husband who knows how to wave his fist.
Liu Fen fell into deep thought, the Xia family was like a nightmare to her!
"Affin!"
Xia Dajun was shouting again, and the parent next to him pushed Liu Fen's arm.
"Is the gay man in the back calling you?"
Liu Fen was still scared, but more disgusted, "Well, he's calling me, he's my ex-husband... I don't want to talk to him."
ex-husband?
In '84, things like ex-husband and ex-wife were all buzzwords. Widows and widows are common, but divorces are really rare. What kind of trouble do couples have to get divorced? There are bound to be bumps in life, quarrels and fights, throwing benches and moving knives, and in the end it's not about making up!
How many couples have been grudges all their lives.
Like Liu Fen and the others who got married in the 1960s, what love is not love, the introducer arranges the meeting between the man and the woman, not the degree of disability that lacks arms and legs, and generally agrees. It was only after the marriage that I realized that the two had a bad temper, that they slept together, and even had a child, so there was nothing they could do, so they continued to live their lives... Divorce? How can you get a divorce.
What do outsiders say, what do the children at home look at, and do both parents agree?
Few people can resist the mouth of the three aunts and six grandmothers.
This parent looked at Liu Fen carefully. He was honest and simple, and it was estimated that he was divorced by a man, which was really pitiful.
It would be even more difficult for Xia Xiaolan to live with her divorced mother and maintain such good grades. Homeschooling? Is there a way to not earn your own tuition and fees?
"Then ignore him. I don't think your ex-husband is easy to mess with. When the meeting is over, I'll ask a few more parents to accompany you out."
Liu Fen was surprised.
She also thought that when she revealed her status as a divorced, the lesbian who had warmly praised her just now would probably change her attitude. Who knows that people still comfort her, Liu Fen's mind is slow, but she is not mentally retarded.
So, divorce is not as humiliating as she thought?
"If life goes on, who will divorce?"
They are all women, so why don't you understand women's thoughts? It is also Liu Fen who looks simple and honest, not like the kind of woman who is smeared with powder and active in mind. Such a woman will not be questioned about the woman's character when divorced.
Xia Dajun agreed to call Liu Fen several times. Liu Fen not only pretended not to hear, but also talked to the person sitting next to him, completely ignoring Xia Dajun. If the woman doesn't beat a few times, she will not be honest and disobedient, Xia Dajun clenched his fists.
He is enduring humiliation!
First, Principal Sun gave a speech, and then Lao Wang from the grade group gave a speech. The County No. 1 Middle School also offered a scholarship, which was evaluated based on the results of the final exam last year. Xia Xiaolan is the second in the grade, the top ten are awarded, the top two are "special scholarships", the third and fourth are the first, the 5-7 is the second, and the 8-10 is the third. It can be seen from the distribution of the number of scholarships that the "special award" was originally given to the first grade, and there were three students in each category of the other awards.
This is because the school specially took care of Xia Xiaolan, and classified the top two as "special awards".
The "special prize" has a bonus of 200 yuan. Xia Xiaolan doesn't want the school's subsidy, but she got this scholarship based on her own performance. Can she still don't want it?
When Lao Wang read Xia Xiaolan's name and asked Xia Xiaolan's classmates to accept the award, the audience applauded.
Liu Fen stood up, and Xia Dajun wanted to stand up too, but was pulled by Mrs. Chen by his side: "Why are you so thick-skinned? Is that the award you should receive?"
Chen Qing put Xia Dajun in the last row for the purpose, and his mother is in the last row. Sister-in-law Chen was going to hold a parent-teacher meeting for Chen Qing. She was so excited that she stayed at the county guest house last night, so she didn't go on the same road with Liu Fen. As soon as Liu Fen entered the auditorium, Sister-in-law Chen saw her own son waiting in front of and behind the horse, and there were so many parents surrounding Liu Fen asking questions, but she didn't come forward to talk.
Xia Dajun just called the soul like "A Fen A Fen", and Sister Chen wanted to beat people.
Both of them are divorced. Do you have any idea if they want to have a relationship with you?
Xia Dajun didn't know Mrs. Chen, but Mrs. Chen knew him. On the day of the divorce, he was pressed to the ground by the people of Qijing Village, and Mrs. Chen was watching the fun from the outside. Xia Dajun accompanies Liu Fen to his parents' house not many times, and he doesn't know the first proud middle-aged woman in Qijing Village... He deserves to be confused at this time.
Overturn this woman?
No, Zi Yu said that he must bear the burden of humiliation.