Chapter 2241 Prophecy

Gu Weimian held the phone, her eyebrows raised high.

She really didn't expect that Gu Yuzhu would have the courage to threaten her.

Sometimes, the words of a stupid person are worse than those of a smart person, and the destructive power is several times higher.

In short, they are stupid and bad.

This kind of people are born without brains, and their eyes only know how to stare at the benefits of others.

Once something happens to her, she blames the sky, the earth, and the whole world, blames that she doesn't have a good father or mother, and blames that no domineering president likes her.

Gu Yuzhu is obviously stupid, so she has come to where she is now.

She doesn't think about how to consolidate her position and how to better learn Gu Weimian's words and deeds.

She can even make some snacks and please Huo Yan, her future husband.

Gu Yuzhu thinks about how to deal with her every day.

There is a very strange phenomenon in this world.

It's called self-fulfilling prophecy.

This thing sounds a bit mysterious, but it actually implies a lot of psychological and neurological principles.

To explain this phenomenon briefly, a person's self-perception often becomes reality.

If someone always says that he is weak and sickly, then over time, he will often really be in poor health.

If someone always says that he may fail the course, he is really likely to fail the course, and even if he does not fail the course, his grades will drop.

This phenomenon is also very wonderful in interpersonal communication.

When a person feels that the other party is really thinking about him and really regards him as a friend.

Even if the other party does not have such an idea at the beginning, when the relationship between the two develops to the later stage, the other party's attitude towards him will often move closer to this direction.

In any case, if you have doubts and malice from the beginning, and speculate every day whether the other party wants to harm you, it will really end up like this in the end.

In other words, if you have a certain psychological expectation of the other party, this psychological expectation will unconsciously guide the other party's behavior, causing the other party to move towards this psychological expectation, and finally make this prophecy come true.

When someone is verifying whether the other party does not love her, it is actually a negative self-fulfilling prophecy.

She keeps looking for evidence to prove "you don't love me", which is actually pushing things in a negative direction.

In the application of interpersonal communication, it is divided into acceptance prophecy.

People who understand this can even use this principle to control others to like or dislike themselves to a certain extent.

Even fortune-telling, many people who have had their fortunes told often have a feeling that they are really predicted.

In fact, this principle is also at work.

In the fake scar experiment, the experimenter is made to doubt that he has a scar on his forehead, but in fact he does not.

So he will think that others will be more nervous when they see him, so he will show nervousness.

But what he doesn't know is that it is his nervousness that makes others nervous, not the scar on his forehead.

In this way, a self-fulfilling prophecy is formed.

So there is an old saying in China, "The more you calculate your fate, the thinner it becomes."

As long as you have heard the fortune teller's prediction of your fate, even if you don't believe it, this part of the prediction has already had a huge impact on your life.

If he says that you have a good fate, then you are really lucky.

If he says that you have a rough fate, then you may really have a rough fate.