719: You Are a Long-Distance Relationship (2 More)
Xia Xiaolan really wanted to kneel to her own mother.
Can Tang Hongen take this kind of thing as a joke? It must be that Grandma Yu told Tang Hongen about it, and he arrived in southern Henan today.
Now that she has no time to settle accounts with Grandma Yu, Xia Xiaolan shattered her mother's fantasy at once:
"I don't think Uncle Tang is joking. He wants to be serious. What are you going to do?"
Li Fengmei didn't think it was a joke either. The big leader came to the country to make this kind of joke, don't make fun of it! What's more, Tang Hongen plans to live at his sister-in-law's house on the 30th New Year's Eve. It is too obvious to cooperate with what he said just now that "the relationship is based on marriage." Yes, this is the first time she has experienced such a fantastic scene!
It is not easy for a lesbian with a rural hukou to marry an urban person.
It is even rarer to be able to marry a cadre.
If it wasn't for Liu Fang's pride, Liang Bing'an was the first to eat public food, and later became the deputy director of the next county.
But Liu Fang was young and beautiful at that time, the most outstanding one of the three brothers and sisters of the old Liu family. It is not surprising that he could marry Liang Bing'an. More than ten years ago, Liang Bing'an was still far from the head of the authorities!
Tang Hongen's situation is different. Liang Bing'an, a leading cadre of his size, is still out of reach of Tang Hongen in front of the deputy director.
Li Fengmei didn't have the vision of her grandmother, she was worried that the other party's status was too high for Liu Fen to play, her idea was very simple and rude, the better Liu Fen married, those who bullied Liu Fen and looked down on Liu Fen in the past are the ones who will regret it. .
Any suffocation can disappear at once.
"Yeah, what are you going to do? Mayor Tang is not like a joke at all. The big leader went to the countryside to celebrate the New Year, and talked nonsense in front of so many people, just to save you! If he doesn't like you, he will kill our family. There is nothing that people can be tempted to bundle together, as for making a trip to save you?!"
Li Fengmei said it was true, but Liu Fen could not believe it.
Even Xia Xiaolan said it was not a joke, and Liu Fen had to believe it.
Li Fengmei directly pulled the word aside and said that Liu Fen couldn't even pretend to be stupid.
What Mr. Tang said to her just now is true! But why, Liu Fen doesn't understand.
"No, no, how can I and Mayor Tang—"
Xia Xiaolan sat down next to her mother, "There's nothing wrong, both of you have had a bad marriage earlier, you're both single, you have a daughter, he and his ex-wife have a son, and he's a few years older than you, so that's not a problem. The age is comparable. His salary is a few hundred yuan a month, which is better than stability and various benefits. You are self-employed, and the amount of money you make every month is uncertain. Not to mention the money you make, you manage the wages of two clothing stores. , it won't be less than his salary... If you must say that you two can't do it, it's not because your family conditions are different, it's because one of you is in Pengcheng and the other is going to Beijing. Mom, this is a long-distance relationship! "
Liu Fen was in a panic at first, but when Xia Xiaolan said it, her thinking went astray.
Li Fengmei pinched her secretly, "Are you stupid?"
Xia Xiaolan was educated by her aunt with practical actions. She felt aggrieved. Of course there was a gap. No matter who says everyone is equal, look at the awe of the rich and powerful by the common people, true equality is too rare.
Xia Xiaolan said this to make Liu Fen feel at ease, saying that remarriage is too far away, and there is a suitable person to try to date - Xia Xiaolan used to have this attitude towards Zhou Cheng, and then found that it was not possible, Zhou Cheng couldn't accept it This concept is even more unacceptable to the generation of Liu Fen and Tang Hongen.
The impact of the reform and opening up was not big. In 1985, the mainstream thought in society was that the relationship between men and women should be based on marriage, otherwise it would be a hooligan!
Tang Hongen's attitude was very correct, Xia Xiaolan taught her mother indiscriminately, wouldn't it be to play with other people's feelings.
Regardless of gender, regardless of status, sincerity should be taken seriously.
Xia Xiaolan didn't know why Tang Hongen liked her mother, whether it was suitable or not, she still believed in Tang Hongen's character, and when people let it out, her mother definitely couldn't keep escaping like an ostrich.
Xia Xiaolan made it clear and was kicked out of the room by Li Fengmei.
Her uncle Liu Yong was carrying a heavy psychological pressure and was doing business. One by one, he registered the names of the people who were going to work in Pengcheng. The letter of introduction must be handled by Chen Wangda. Tang Hongen waited for Liu Yong to complete the registration before giving an opinion. :
"Go to the Public Security Bureau and ask. I remember that the country's policy was in place last year. This year, it may be possible to start applying for ID cards nationwide. You often run outside like this, and you will use ID cards more in the future."
"Uncle Tang, can I apply for an ID card now?"
Xia Xiaolan is more concerned about this issue than Liu Yong.
The letter of introduction is really inconvenient. You have to open a letter of introduction every time you go out, or you can't buy a ticket.
Train tickets cannot be bought, and the letter of introduction for air tickets is even more troublesome.
There is also an overseas accommodation, and a letter of introduction is required to open a room.
"Last year, the first batch of ID cards were issued, but the number was very small, only a few hundred. This year, the state will expand the scope of issuance. In order to facilitate household registration management, the promotion of resident ID cards will be increased in the next few years. Everyone needs an ID card.”
Tang Hongen also told Xia Xiaolan an interesting anecdote. The first batch of resident ID cards were issued on a trial basis in Beijing. Among them was a famous female singer. The teacher took the ID card to the post office to withdraw money. The post office staff insisted that she take it. The letter of introduction proved his identity, and finally he asked the leaders layer by layer for instructions, and the public security bureau was alerted, and the teacher successfully used his ID card to get the money.
"It's all been published in the newspapers, why don't you even care about such a big thing?"
summer
Xiaolan thought for a while, "You said it was last summer, Uncle Tang, when I just finished the college entrance examination."
Xia Xiaolan was very moved when she heard it. People who don't travel far have their ID cards at home. This is the situation for most Chinese people right now. But for those who want to go out, it is too convenient to have an ID card, and Xia Xiaolan wants to apply for one.
Whether it can be done or not depends on the time when the official documents are issued.
"You don't have to worry, go back to school and ask the teacher, you have no problem with qualifications."
Xia Xiaolan's hukou relationship is now transferred to the school. It stands to reason that Tian under her name should be withdrawn. Chen Wangda is still fooling this kind of people who don't report to officials.
When talking about ID cards, the villagers perked up their ears.
If Chen Wangda didn't leave, the others could only stay. After 5:00 pm, Liu Fen would not be able to hide anymore. With so many people in the family, her host would always be busy preparing dinner.
The people who helped in the morning were still busy as usual. Tian Xiaoyan stayed at Xia Xiaolan's house for a long time and felt uneasy. She had all kinds of thoughts in her heart. It was impossible to cry all the time, and there were not so many tears. Anyway, Sister Chen and the others have been looking at her, the little girl who is going to kneel to death at every turn, they really can't afford to offend her.
As soon as the food was cooked here, a group of people with family members rushed to Xia Xiaolan's house on the snow, and the leader was Boss Tian:
"Uncle Da, the public security took my third child away. What does this mean? If there is any conflict, we have always resolved it by ourselves. What a big deal, as for reporting it?!"