240: Who Are We Not Responsible for (1137 Votes Plus More)
Can people choose their origin?
cannot.
It's not up to you to decide what kind of family you are born into.
Xia Xiaolan also knew this, she felt that she was very unreasonable. Zhou Cheng is so good. He will only turn 21 next month, and he is already a major. He will definitely be very successful in his career last week. There must be Zhou Cheng's efforts and opportunities, but Zhou Cheng's ability to seize the opportunity for promotion is inseparable from his family's cultivation of him.
Human intelligence has heredity, whether ability and intelligence can be equated, but also acquired.
Zhou Cheng's family must be very attentive to his training.
Zhou Cheng's starting point is different, Xia Xiaolan is not stupid, why did it take her 20 years in her last life to taste success for the first time? Because the starting point is poor!
Xia Xiaolan was stunned by what Zhou Cheng said.
It is not Zhou Cheng's choice to be born. The Zhou Cheng she likes cannot really be separated from the shaping and influence of his family background on him. The Zhou family has cultivated Zhou Cheng so well. She only wants people and doesn't recognize the Zhou family?
Xia Xiaolan also felt that she was unreasonable.
Just because there is no way to ignore Zhou Cheng's family, isn't that the reason why she needs to reconsider the relationship between the two. As soon as Xia Xiaolan got her thinking clear, Zhou Cheng continued:
"I like you, you like me, I think you are amazing, and your family gets along very well. I really don't know what's wrong with us."
Needless to say about the Xia family, Xia Xiaolan has cut ties with that side, and Zhou Cheng has no intention of taking care of it.
It was said that Xia Xiaolan cared about the family members, and her uncle Liu Yong objected to the two of them.
Liu Yong's attitude eased. Liu Fen and his aunt Li Fengmei liked Zhou Cheng very much. Zhou Cheng and Xia Xiaolan's family were very relaxed when they were together. There is definitely a gap in the social circle between the villagers and Zhou Cheng, but none of the three elders in Xia Xiaolan's family are that kind of cunning villains.
Just like Xia Xiaolan, she is charming, and her eyes are very attractive, but her eyes are square and clear.
Taking a step back, Xia Xiaolan's family is full of top quality people. Zhou Cheng likes Xia Xiaolan's people, so he can't let go because of family reasons. At most, in the future, she will have to take care of things in her family. Can Xia Xiaolan be denied because of this?
Like is like.
Zhou Cheng fell in love with Xia Xiaolan, and found that she was full of advantages, of course he liked it better.
Young people's liking is about feeling. Zhou Cheng doesn't understand the mutual attraction of hormones, so he pondered that even if Xia Xiaolan didn't have any good qualities, just like the rumors and gossip said, she was a frivolous woman. He loves vanity, eats food and is lazy... How can he be?
Not having to pinch the nose to recognize it.
He is rich, handsome and has a good family background. It would be better if Xia Xiaolan admired vanity. Zhou Cheng didn't have to worry about Xia Xiaolan not wanting to be with him.
At this moment, he really wished that Xia Xiaolan had more vain attributes.
Xia Xiaolan was speechless by what Zhou Cheng said.
She has always been sharp-spoken, but she has also encountered opponents. Zhou Cheng's words were coherent and sincere. He likes Xia Xiaolan, wants to fall in love with Xia Xiaolan, wants the two to be together, nothing else matters!
Xia Xiaolan felt a little ashamed.
She thought it was troublesome, and she was shaken about whether to date Zhou Cheng... In the face of Zhou Cheng's sincerity and sincerity, Xia Xiaolan thought that her liking was not as weighty as Zhou Cheng's.
Zhou Cheng is very firm, she seems a little too sober?
"Don't look at me like this, it will affect my judgment. I'll say it first, it's okay for your family to object to our relationship, just come at me directly, but don't go to my family."
Xia Xiaolan's words were serious, and Zhou Cheng was quite confused.
How could the Zhou family be so incompetent, and go around Xiaolan to find her family?
Even if his mother objected, most of them would say something like "love casually, marriage is not acceptable". Zhou Cheng has always been in charge of his own affairs, and his family's disagreement does not prevent him from being with Xia Xiaolan.
As for Xia Xiaolan, she has a big brain and has never been in contact with the privileged class, so she put the plot of the film and television drama on the Zhou family.
If you can't force young people to break up, isn't it all because of King Tianliang's failure to make life difficult for the woman's family?
Zhou Cheng understood her brain hole, Zhou Cheng felt aggrieved, what are all these thoughts!
"I won't take you home now, just because I'm afraid that someone will say something unpleasant and affect your mood. After all, you are about to take the college entrance examination, and you are still busy with business. After your college entrance examination, I will take you home to see your family, Then we can get married on the agenda..."
The more Zhou Cheng spoke, the happier he became.
Xia Xiaolan heard that the first half was normal, but the back was not quite right.
He couldn't help interrupting Zhou Cheng's words, "I mentioned marriage after the college entrance examination?!"
She is in a relationship, likes Zhou Cheng, and has a good impression of Zhou Cheng, doesn't it mean that she wants to get married?
I have only known Zhou Cheng for a few months.
Xia Xiaolan counted them. She met Zhou Cheng only a few times. There were maybe ten letters. Isn't love just beginning? Even after she came to the capital to study at university, the chances of the two meeting each other increased, and they would become more mutual. Understand that this relationship will gradually get better and better.
Of course, a deep understanding of a relationship deepens, and the other may be to discover irreconcilable contradictions between the two parties, and then part ways.
No matter what kind of possibility, it can't be related to marriage, right?
Zhou Cheng heard Xia Xiaolan's surprise, and he explained naturally: "The object of my relationship with you is to marry you as a wife.
It's not that we are not old enough, I want to take you to get a marriage certificate now! Your birthday is in June. After the college entrance examination, you will be 19 years old. Next summer, we will be old enough to get married. "
Zhou Cheng didn't think there was anything wrong.
This is what he sees around him. Whoever goes back to their hometown for a blind date in the army can hold a wedding right away when they see each other, and a family visit can solve the two processes of blind date and marriage. After all, he and Xiaolan had to know each other for two years before they could get married, precisely because they were not old enough. In the countryside, there is still the habit of not getting a certificate when getting married, but Zhou Cheng felt that he and Xiaolan would be husband and wife in an upright manner if they got a marriage certificate.
Xia Xiaolan finally understood.
Gao Fei, Tong Lili, and the Zhou family's objections are nothing.
The crux of the problem is that she and Zhou Cheng have completely different paces in their relationship!
Getting married at 20?
She may not understand the idea of marriage and love in the 80s. Passion and liking make men and women decide to fall in love, and understanding and getting along can make lovers enter marriage!
"Zhou Cheng, this is a big problem. I like you, but I haven't thought about getting married, it's too soon. We are too young, there are so many things in life waiting for us, when you are 22 years old, At the age of 20, the first thing I have to think about is not marriage..."
Zhou Cheng was so young many years ago that Xia Xiaolan wondered if he was really ready for marriage.
Can being a husband be the same as being a boyfriend?
A lot of things are not based on passion. It's no problem to fall in love with Xia Xiaolan. If Zhou Cheng plans to get married soon, Xia Xiaolan wants to take a step back!