219: Persevering American Suitors (2 More)
In 1994, Youli returned from her studies in the United States.
In addition to getting her degree, she also worked in the United States for a year. Xia Xiaolan is very supportive of this. Of course, it is good to see more of the world outside.
Tang Youru is learning to take care of it slowly. A person can be disabled physically, but can be very spiritual. Tang Youru has adapted to this job. She has done a great job. Xia Xiaolan intends to give her full power in the future. Responsible for the scholarship fund.
You Li did not return to China alone. She also returned with her suitor, an American, a young entrepreneur, and after meeting You Li at an alumni cocktail party, she started a persevering pursuit of You Li.
How could You Li have the heart to fall in love and still owe her cousin Xia Xiaolan a lot of money!
However, this American did not give up because he was rejected. He pursued You Li for two years and did not impress Dongfang Beauty. You Li wanted to return to China, and this person directly chased after China——
"Gavin is sincere."
Xia Xiaolan commented this way.
You Li couldn't help looking up, Gavin was receiving the "love" from her uncle Tang Hongen, and You Li couldn't deny Xia Xiaolan's statement.
She sometimes wonders, is she so attractive?
To be able to make an American pursue such a persevering pursuit for two years, and because she is willing to learn Chinese culture, using chopsticks or something, is a pediatrician. At this time, Gavin was communicating with Tang Hongen in Chinese with poor pronunciation.
Gavin has the confidence of an American, but at this time he is also covered in cold sweat.
The You Li he knew was just an ordinary Chinese student, but when he arrived in China, Gavin found that his sweetheart was not ordinary at all.
The sweetheart's mother is physically inconvenient, but manages a fund.
My sweetheart's cousin is an excellent Chinese architect and the owner of a real estate company.
The uncle of the sweetheart is a high-ranking official in China... Poor Gaiwen cannot be solemn and solemn, for fear that he will leave a bad impression in front of Youli's family.
He is just the son of a small farmer. He has been particularly good at studying since he was a child, and successfully went to university.
Start your own business during college, get investment, and start your own company.
God, will he be despised? !
Gaiwen cast a look of help at You Li, You Li turned her eyes aside, Xia Xiaolan took her hand and went out: "You actually like him, right?"
If you don't like it, even if Gai Wen perseveres to chase after Hua Guo, You Li will not let him see Xia Xiaolan, Tang Hongen and others.
Youli is a slow person, two years is enough time for Gavin to slowly enter her heart.
She needs the encouragement and approval of her family so that she has the courage to meet new relationships. The previous relationship with Shao Guangrong, which died prematurely, still affected her.
So this time, although she has not yet agreed to formally date with Gavin, You Li has never concealed her family situation.
Her uncle and cousin are not objects for her to brag about. She told Gavin that she was a child born in a single-parent family. She could study in the United States because of her cousin's support. Her mother needed a wheelchair to travel, and she owed her cousin a lot of money to treat her mother's illness.
If these Gavins can accept it, she will consider falling in love with him.
Gavin was really taken aback at first.
There are differences between Eastern and Western concepts. You Li grew up in China, and in the past few years, the atmosphere of China has gradually opened up. In the early years, "to fall in love without the purpose of marriage is to be a hooligan." Tell Gavin the truth ahead of time.
However, according to the rhythm in the United States, what Gavin thinks about is to have a successful date first, become a boyfriend and girlfriend, and finally consider marriage... Seriously, most Americans clearly distinguish between love and marriage, and Some couples live together all year round, and there are many who have several children but do not get married.
You Li's straightforwardness frightened Gavin, the young man disappeared for half a month, and when he reappeared, he told You Li to think about it:
"The Chinese family is more closely connected. I am willing to take care of your mother with you. That's what I should do, isn't it?"
You Li said that his own agreement is not counted, and he should seek the opinion of his family.
Gavin is inexplicable:
"What kind of woman I like is my choice. What does it have to do with my family? They will only bless me!"
This is also a manifestation of the cultural differences between the East and the West.
Even a college student like Gavin needs to take out a loan to pay tuition fees. Parents really won’t interfere with their children’s marriages, nor will they interfere with their children’s careers. They’re adults, and they can do whatever they want.
You Li also said that she would go back to China and would not stay in the United States.
This time, Gavin agreed without a word, and his tone was more cautious:
"I need to go to China with you to see."
what to see?
It depends on whether Huaguo is suitable for settlement and whether there is any soil for his company to survive. He can't promise something that he can't do. Falling in love with a Chinese girl and being willing to understand Chinese culture for her is one thing, long-term. Living in China is another matter.
And his career.
Men can go to foreign countries for love, but they cannot use love as an excuse to rely on girls to support them.
Gavin is just like this. He didn’t care much when he grew up on the farm. The success of college entrepreneurship is more because of technology. He has to find someone for comparison. It’s a bit like the American version of Xu Jing.
Of course, Gavin doesn't have an ex like Xiang Li, and the love history is simple. He has only two girlfriends in total. One was in high school, and he broke up after he was admitted to college. The other was in college.
My friend was dumped... When I met You Li, he had graduated from college for two years, the small company was barely on the right track, and he was able to take time to attend the alumni cocktail party. After a long period of vacancy, Gavin has almost forgotten the taste of love. Let's get to know Yuli at the most opportune time!
Everything is just right.
Gavin also calmed down slowly, because he found that Tang Hongen communicated with him in English.
God, his Chinese is not good enough, he is sweating profusely!
And the more he tells the truth, the milder Tang Hongen's attitude will be. Of course Gavin knows what to do - don't try to use lies to win the favor of Youli's family, he should tell the truth!
Tang Hongen and Gavin chatted for two hours, but they didn't pick out the fault of the American guy.
It's just that he praises Youli with exaggerated words from time to time... Tang Hongen accepts it calmly, of course his niece is very good.
Tang Hongen's evaluation of Gavin is higher than Shao Guangrong.
If Xiao You likes it, let her date this Gavin.
He asked his sister in a low voice:
"do you like him?"
Gavin looked at the two nervously, and he understood this sentence.
Tang Youru nodded lightly, "He likes Xiaoyou, and Xiaoyou also likes him. That's the most important thing. Second brother, I just want Xiaoyou to be happy."
Tang Youru was very fortunate that she insisted on working after returning from medical treatment in the United States.
The job gave her self-confidence, and the job allowed her to meet the American guy who likes You Li decently!