2011: Only by Seeking Common Ground While Reserving Differences Can We Be Happy (2 Updates)

Grandma Yu thinks that some people can be decisive in killing. This is their talent and the influence of their life experiences.

For example, Xia Xiaolan dared to take the divorced Liu Fen to the city to work hard at the age of 18. Grandma Yu admired her very much. Yes, what comes before love is appreciation!

But if Tina can't become "Xia Xiaolan's second", she shouldn't be harshly criticized.

Different people and different growth experiences cannot copy Xia Xiaolan's character and temper to Tina. If Grandma Yu wants to accept this granddaughter, she must accept her innocence!

Although this is not the character that Grandma Yu admires, she believes that girls should be strong and not rely too much on others, because judging from her personal life experience, it is always difficult to predict when changes in life will come. If you are not strong, Point, how can you survive the trough of life?

Yes, you can rely on your father and brothers for protection before you get married, you can rely on your husband after you get married, and you can rely on your children when you get older.

So what should we do if these people are unable to protect them?

So, what's the use of being innocent and innocent? Just like "kindness" is indeed a beautiful quality, but it is something that takes a lot of effort to protect. Birth, old age, illness, death, all kinds of changes, who knows how life will treat a kind person. It is better to count on others to take care of these qualities than to count on yourself!

Grandma Yu did this herself.

No matter how bad her life was, she always had the faith to persevere.

But she was able to do this only after she reached middle age and experienced many things.

Yu Shu, the 18-year-old eldest daughter of the Yu family, couldn't do it.

Then Tina can't do it, isn't it normal?

Grandma Yu not only softened her heart, she also looked away.

Of course she hates Zhang Jiadong and wants to crush the traitor to ashes, but everyone's life in the world is not simply black and white. Zhang Jiadong is a bad person to her, Xu Zhongyi, and Xu Changle. In front of Tina, he is also a bad person. Seems like a really 'loving father'.

At least for now, not only was Tina confused and crying, but Grandma Yu was also confused.

People are dead and can't confront each other. No one can understand Zhang Jiadong's thoughts. If this person later knew that Tina was not his daughter, why would he still be nice to Tina?

Xia Xiaolan quietly exited the ward, leaving Grandma Yu and Tina some space alone.

"Perhaps, it was because I watched her being born, raised her, and devoted all my efforts to protecting her. When I found out that she was not my biological daughter, I could no longer take back the feelings I had given..."

Bloodline is important.

Bloodline is not that important.

Those who have raised the wrong child cannot bear to be separated from the wrong child when they find their biological child.

When adopted children learn the truth as adults, most of them will become closer to their adoptive parents and reject their biological parents.

Even if she herself had complained about her cousin in her previous life, why she adopted her and didn't treat her well and couldn't raise her as her biological child. If they treated her like that, she would definitely treat her cousin and uncle as her biological parents and be filial. She will do better than her biological daughter!

She is quite smart and can read, but she almost dropped out of school.

She did complain when she was working and studying on her own.

She has been raising her for 10 years. As long as she persists for the last few years, she will be able to repay her cousin and his wife. Why should she give up halfway?

For a few years, she was holding back her strong will to stand out and make her cousin and his wife regret it... Later, she really achieved some success and bought two apartments for her cousin in her hometown, but her hard work disappeared inexplicably.

She really has no right to complain about the other party.

It would be nice if he was willing to give her, an orphan, a meal and a roof to shelter from the wind and rain.

Do you really want people to regard her as more important than your own children?

There may be such holy fathers and holy mothers in the world, but my cousin and his wife are not. They are just ordinary people. We cannot hold them to the highest moral standards, but they are definitely not bad people.

Xia Xiaolan had let go of this matter in her previous life.

It was just Tina who reminded her of it again.

Xia Xiaolan was a little confused. When she looked up and saw Liu Fen standing in the hospital corridor, her confusion was immediately forgotten.

Tina is entangled, but she is not entangled. Why should she be affected by these negative emotions? Comrade Afen will always be by her side.

"mom!"

"Hey, Tina is awake?"

"I woke up. Grandma Yu was talking to her inside, so I left the room first."

"Let them talk. Tina must have been frightened this time. She guessed many things, but she didn't guess that Mr. and Mrs. Wilson were so bad... After this incident, I don't know if Tina will be more like Aunt Yu and the others. Get closer."

Liu Fen looked slightly sad.

Xia Xiaolan held her arm and smiled, "Safety is the best thing. This experience is terrible, but it may not be a good thing. Let Grandma Yu and Uncle Xu handle it themselves."

That's natural.

Liu Fen was still very scared.

Not only was she afraid of something happening to Tina, but more importantly, Xia Xiaolan. Even if she was selfish, no one was more important than her daughter.

"Teacher Mao, they asked you if you want to visit the museum?"

"Yes, I'll go today. After visiting the museum, do you still want to play in the United States? If not, I want to go back to China."

The lawsuit was won and the news spread back to China, where the school was very happy.

However, the department approved her leave and gave her special treatment. She was not allowed to travel in the United States. It was agreed with AIA that the museum design would be finally reported by the two magazines.

Still have to start early.

That afternoon, Xia Xiaolan visited the Metropolitan Museum with Mao Kangshan, Professor Wen and Professor McCarthy.

Sure enough, the collection of art and other things were all in vain, so the three people took turns giving her a live lesson.

During this process, Mao Kangshan and McCarthy didn't compete particularly hard. They just went back and forth with each other for a few hundred moves, right? - Sympathizing with each other? Impossible, until they returned home, the two of them disliked each other.

McCarthy's last words to Mao Kangshan were:

"If you feel that you are too old to continue teaching her, I hope you can make the right choice and don't delay her!"

Mao Kangshan was still angry even while sitting on the plane, and kept asking Aunt Song:

"I'm old?"

"I can still eat two bowls of rice in one meal!"

"I can still teach Xiaolan when I am 80 years old!"

"No, I want to live to be 90 years old. He wants to outlast me and take over as my apprentice. Just dream!"

What can Xia Xiaolan say?

We are still young, and having an old man in the family is really like a treasure. If you can't afford to offend him, you can only offer him high. Not to mention, Mao Kangshan always felt that McCarthy was waiting to steal his apprentice. After returning to China, he paid more attention to taking care of his body. He was very motivated to live to 99 years old and make McCarthy's expectations come true.

Xia Xiaolan was actually very moved.

Whether it was her master, McCarthy, or Professor Wen, she was touched that so many people were kind to her.

Even Kissinger, who claimed that interests came first, did not give up on her at the critical moment.