1404. Xiaoyu's Troubles and Hesitation
Because the restaurant is not too far from the place where the two are currently meeting, the two naturally chose to go there on foot. On the one hand, they hope to exercise. After all, one always sits in the classroom to study the other, and sits in the office. Some data and data entry work is carried out inside, and the posture of sitting and standing for a long time will have some modern influences on the bodies of the two people.
Of course, there is another reason, because two people have things to deal with most of the time every day, one has their own position in the company, and the other needs to maintain their own attention and effort, so that My academic performance and scholarship will not be affected rashly because of the relationship status.
So there is very little time to meet and date every day. Except for some fixed holidays, most of the time can only be chatted through mobile phone text messages to share with each other what I have gained and all my experiences.
Meetings like this kind of dating can only happen once or twice a week. After all, after a whole day of work and study, both of them are exhausted physically and mentally. What they want to do more is to lie in bed and rest for a while Time, instead of following your boyfriend or girlfriend and continuing to repeat things that waste energy and energy.
It is precisely because the two have maintained a restrained and regular relationship that the emotional state of the two of them has always been in a relatively stable situation.
It is precisely because of this reason that when two people date each other, they try to spend time telling each other how much they miss each other, and at the same time cherish every minute and every second they spend with each other. There is a chance It is also a pretty good thing to prolong the time for two people to talk or share by walking.
When Xiaoyu talked with the two of them, most of them kept smiling and gently, because he might not have any good suggestions for the other party's current life and study situation, but just listened to his girlfriend all the time. Like a cheerful lark, she chirped in her ears and shared all the problems she encountered today. For example, which professor expressed her appreciation for her learning attitude, and at the same time, for some inexplicable reasons, she fell in love with another girl. Some disputes or some bad psychological views.
When talking about good things, Xiaoyu will also express his praise and admiration for the other party smoothly. If he encounters some bad things to share, Xiaoyu will stand by his girlfriend with righteous words. On the one hand, some verbal condemnation and righteous indignation towards the other person.
And the clarity and expression of this attitude is exactly what she wants for Seaman. Sometimes she may not want to know an answer, what she wants is a position that is always on the same front as herself And rely on the back.
Naturally, everyone understands the truth, and when everyone says something, they can also tell from their own standpoint whether they are doing it right or wrong, but even if this is the case, Everyone still has their own seven emotions and six desires, and even some relatively negative emotions and opinions, which are all natural things, after all, not everyone is a perfect saint.
While the two of them were constantly communicating and sharing what they had gained throughout the day, they also moved forward slowly, and soon came to the French restaurant that Xiaoyu said was very good, and they were greeted by the waiters as soon as they entered the door. After ordering the corresponding signature dishes, Ximan finally started to exchange some more formal topics with Xiaoyu.
"I think you're a little unhappy today, is it still the same problem as before?"
It can be said that the two people now have a very deep understanding of each other's emotions and the whole person, and even apart from their own family members, there is no other same person who can understand each other better than them.
Since the two met, Guan Xiaoyu has kept smiling, but Ximan still has the melancholy that flashes between his brows from time to time, and he can feel that his boyfriend is troubled by something.
Coupled with the things the other party has been thinking about and the difficulties they have encountered during this period, I know it well, and I can even say it clearly, so I naturally want to use my own unique way to solve the problem that the other party has always been entangled in. thoughts.
"Yes, I'm still undecided. On the one hand, I don't know what kind of industry I should engage in. On the other hand, I don't know how to talk to my brother-in-law and sister about this matter. The job was specially arranged for me by the other party, and now I suddenly want to change jobs, or escape from this working environment, it seems to me a feeling of betrayal.”
Although Xiaoyu is full of ambitions and wants to work hard on his own, but so far there is still no precise goal for which industry to start from. Every time he thinks of the industry, he can choose very firmly. But maybe two days later, a new idea will emerge, and I even feel that this idea is much better than my previous one.
It may be because he has no similar experience, so he always maintains a state of worrying about gains and losses, and even always feels that this matter seems to be a bit difficult for Lisko and Zhang Li, and he does not know what kind of attitude and words to express to each other own current thoughts.
Of course, this situation may be due to the fact that Xiaoyu's social experience is not so profound, and he even pays more attention to the views and ideas of the two people.
Since I came to the United States, both my sister and brother-in-law have taken special care of me, and I can even say that I treat myself as my own brother. Almost all possible problems from the inside to the outside are taken care of by the other party. Don't allow yourself to be affected and feel uncomfortable in an all-round way.
It is this kind of meticulous care and deep friendship that Xiaoyu still doesn't know how to explain his current thoughts to these two people who have great expectations for him, and he is even afraid that the other party will refute and disagree. own current plans and plans.
"In terms of industry, we can slowly choose to go to online professional survey agencies to see what the hottest industries in the market are. No matter what you do, as long as you start, this action is a big one for me. Progress." Seaman has always maintained an attitude of approval for her boyfriend's desire to start a business, and she feels that no matter what a person wants to do in the future, as long as he has a self-motivated heart, even if he fails, It is also possible to gain a lot of things that may not be learned in ordinary times from this kind of failure experience.
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