Six Hundred and Twentieth Chapters Different Attitudes Towards Marriage

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Ouyang Feifei calmed down quickly, and replied softly: "I also ask Mr. Ling for advice."

"Mom, why don't I go take a shower first." Luo Ziling didn't want to get involved in this matter, and let the two women Ling Ruonan and Ouyang Feifei talk about it themselves, so they planned to use the bath as an excuse to avoid it. I'm sweating a lot, and my body is full of stench, which will make you faint in a while. I'm going to take a shower!" After saying that, he was about to sneak upstairs.

But Ling Ruonan didn't intend to let Luo Ziling avoid this question, "Sit down and talk about it together, you are the person involved, we want to hear your opinion."

This made Luo Ziling very embarrassed, but in the end he didn't run away and sat down obediently.

He is also regretting, if he knew that he would not come to Ling Ruonan tonight, or he would not agree to bring Ouyang Feifei to visit.

But he couldn't escape, so he could only sit depressed.

"Mr. Ling can speak up if you have any ideas," Ouyang Feifei said calmly.

"At the beginning, his grandfather and your grandfather made a baby marriage for you, and I opposed it," Ling Ruonan said blankly, "Because I was the victim of the family marriage, and I suffered a lot from it, so of course I don't want my son to marry me." Therefore, I told his grandfather that I did not agree to this marriage. His grandfather also accepted my request, so after Ziling came to Yanjing, the first thing he did was to come to tell you about this I think both of us can live with it because it wasn't clear and it wasn't getting out."

Ouyang Feifei didn't interrupt because she knew that Ling Ruonan hadn't finished speaking.

Luo Ziling would not interrupt.

"I know that besides me, you are the one who most strongly opposes this engagement." Ling Ruonan looked at Ouyang Feifei with a slight smile on his face: "I know you definitely don't want to accept the marriage arranged by your family, like you What a person with such a personality wants most is to hold his life in his own hands. I think, if Ziling didn’t come to the door to want to dissolve the engagement, but to propose a marriage, you would definitely not accept it. He came to the door to annul the engagement, and your self-esteem will be affected. It hurt her, so she changed her attitude and wanted to keep the engagement, right? The reason is just unwillingness."

Now Ouyang Feifei was a little embarrassed, she didn't know how to answer.

But after hesitating for a while, Ouyang Feifei finally nodded in approval of Ling Ruonan's analysis. Because she thought of what she and Luo Ziling said directly two days ago, she would not just let go of the marriage contract, and a woman's self-esteem is not so easy to be trampled on.

"I do have such a mind,

"Ouyang Feifei said with a wry smile: "I believe Ling always understands that no woman is willing to be rejected by others, especially a woman like me who has always been arrogant. If Ziling came to the door not to propose a divorce, but to propose marriage, hoping to have a formal engagement with me, then I might refuse to accept it. It's really not reconciled to be turned into this. "

After a pause, she continued: "Before Zi Ling came to the door to withdraw the marriage, I really resisted Grandpa's arrangement. The most important reason is what Mr. Ling said just now. Arrangement. Another point is that I am about one and a half years older than Ziling, and I don’t want to be both a wife and a mother in front of my future husband. After I knew that Ziling was separated from you since childhood, I was thinking , if I am really with him, I may have to take on the role of wife and mother, at least, to take care of him like a sister. There is another reason, that is, I hope that my future husband is a good man in every way People can beat me, so I won't be dissatisfied. I think Ziling, who grew up in a small mountain village, has never gone to school and will be lacking in many aspects."

After saying these psychological words, she smiled awkwardly at Luo Ziling, and then said her conclusion: "Therefore, I have always rejected this engagement and did not intend to accept it. But after hearing with my own ears that Quilt Ling retired, my self-esteem After being hurt so much, I was very unwilling, and even wanted to take revenge. In addition, I later learned that Ziling is very good in all aspects, so my thoughts have also changed."

"Well, since what you said is so straightforward, let's not hide it," Ling Ruonan was very satisfied with Ouyang Feifei's straightforwardness, and before Luo Ziling could say anything, she explained what she meant first: "I want to know what you are doing now. Attitude, the purpose of your frequent contact with Ziling."

She looked at Luo Ziling again: "I also want to know your attitude and thoughts, because the situation is very complicated now, and it's better to be clear about some things."

Now that she had spoken, Ouyang Feifei lost her scruples and directly explained her thoughts: "I don't force the marriage contract to continue. I know that this kind of thing can't be forced. I have thought about what to force. The relationship between a man and a woman should happen naturally, not through some established marriage contract of the previous generation. Now I feel that Ziling is good in all aspects, and I am willing to treat him as a friend. As for whether he can become a lover, That’s not something I can control alone.”

Unexpectedly, Ouyang Feifei would say this, Luo Ziling was very surprised.

For a woman to be able to say so much, isn't the meaning very clear?

When the two women looked at him, he didn't know what to say.

"What do you think?" Finally Ling Ruonan asked directly.

"I'm in a relationship with Yang Qingyin now, and I feel good getting along with her," Luo Ziling could only bite the bullet and said in the end: "I also know that it is very difficult to be with her, but I don't want to give up. And Feifei Although there are often some misunderstandings between us, I... think we can still be very good friends."

Luo Ziling actually said this, and chose Yang Qingyin instead of her. Ouyang Feifei was very disappointed, and looked at Luo Ziling with anger. Luo Ziling didn't dare to look at her, and turned his head to avoid his eyes.

"Okay, I probably understand what you mean." Ling Ruonan breathed a sigh of relief, and then said to Luo Ziling: "Your life needs to be chosen by yourself, and what you think now may not be your final choice, but no matter what Whatever choice you make, who you end up with, Mom will support you and not interfere with your decision as much as possible. I just hope that you can think about everything clearly, both feelings and reality. After all, two people are going to For a lifetime. If there will be endless troubles after we get together, we still have to think carefully. I don’t want to see the tragic lessons from your father and me!”

Ling Ruonan's words surprised Ouyang Feifei and Luo Ziling again.

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