Six Hundred and Twelve. Marriage Problems

??? Mao Weilong has lived in the fishing ground for a while, but some privacy between Qin Shiou and Wei Ni has not been shown to him. What he sees is the sweetness between the two, you are in me and I am in you .

Even Qin Shiou and Wei Ni have some privacy that cannot be shared with each other, such as his Sea God's Heart, the relationship between Wei Ni and his family, and so on.

This has always been a headache for him. After all, the national conditions of Canada and China are different. It is no wonder that cross-border love is difficult to succeed, because the culture, habits and consciousness of men and women are different, and conflicts are easy to arise.

Take privacy as an example. People in Canada attach great importance to privacy. They think that 'everything that belongs to them and has nothing to do with others is within the scope of privacy'.

In the minds of Canadians, privacy is above the moral category, and other people are absolutely not allowed to interfere and intrude, let alone allow others to deliberately inquire or spread, even between husband and wife or between father and son Give each other personal space.

So just now when Mao Weilong didn't want to talk about the issue of financial resources, Qin Shiou followed his topic and shifted.

If he is still in the country and he has a net worth of hundreds of millions, then no matter what, he has to ask Mao Weilong what his current needs are. In the minds of Chinese people, if you don't look for me if you are short of money among good buddies, then you don't regard me as your own.

Seeing Qin Shiou's helpless expression, Mao Weilong chàyì asked: "What's the matter? Wei Ni doesn't want to marry you? Impossible?"

Qin Shiou sighed, shook his head and said, "It's not that she doesn't want to marry me, but that she doesn't want to get married so soon. I really can't understand her thoughts on this."

"No, you can find time to visit her house. Talk to her parents about this issue." Mao Weilong advised him.

Qin Shiou rolled his eyes, waved his hands and said, "Go, go, go. You've really fooled me. This is Canada. It's not in China. Who and when Winnie will marry has nothing to do with her parents."

Mao Weilong couldn't help him much in this regard, and it even had something to do with the national conditions. The overall national conditions in Canada don't talk about marriage lightly, so Qin Shiou can only be anxious about Winnie's choice, and can't blame her.

Before I landed in Canada, I was like many people. Because of the influence of some European and American film and television works or literary readings, Qin Shiou has always believed that Westerners seem to be very open, and they have a more casual view of love and marriage.

Came here to find out,

In fact, it is not the case. Canadians are very cautious about marriage. People here may have many friends of the opposite sex in their lives. But it is definitely not easy to enter the palace of marriage.

There are multiple factors that affect Canadians' concept of marriage. First, there is the factor of religious belief. Although Canada is a multiracial immigrant country with rich and diverse cultures and many different religious denominations, the main belief is still Christianity.

in the Christian faith. Marriage is regarded as a gift given by God to man. In the interpretation of the September Bible, the true meaning of marriage has been established at the beginning of God's creation of man.

For Christian believers. Marriage is not just about two people forming a family because they love each other, but more importantly, it is the true meaning of marriage. It is a gift from God to mankind:

Let the two people who love each other make a vow of staying together for a lifetime before God. Regardless of illness, pain or other changes in life, the two must keep their promise to never change; and use their marriage and family as a carrier to demonstrate God's goodness and great love.

The love here includes love between husband and wife, love for children, love for parents, love for friends...

Under such a religious background, Christian believers cannot easily divorce. Divorce is not only a breach of the vows made by believers before God, but also a violation of God's best grace and will for mankind.

In addition to religious factors, the local legal system and money concepts also prevent people from easily choosing to marry, because once married life is not happy and divorce occurs, it will be interesting, and procedures such as finding a lawyer and going to court are extremely troublesome and slow.

So in Canada, some people live together for many years and even have children and are unwilling to get married. Some people think about getting married after they are in their 30s and 40s.

Moreover, in Winnie's eyes, she and Qin Shiou have already formed a family, admiring each other, living a happy life, and raising pets like children. If this is the case, why do you have to be obsessed with a marriage certificate?

However, Mao Weilong's proposal also gave Qin Shiou some other ideas. In Canada, even if the father-in-law and mother-in-law have little say in marriage issues, they still have the right to speak. easy.

Thinking of this, Qin Shiou personally sailed out to sea, and the Poseidon consciousness carefully selected four or five brightly colored turbot, the fattest golden-eyed bream, the plump elephant-nosed mussel, and the queen Rare seafood such as crab, deep-sea lobster, salmon, and American eel.

Of course, when the yacht started chūqù, it also picked up the four small wine barrels near the fishing ground.

Putting the small wine barrel into the freezer, Qin Shiou asked Shaq to pack up the fish and freeze them. At night, he found Winnie and said, "Hey, sweetheart, haven't you been home for a long time? Please take a leave of absence, I will accompany you home kànkàn, right?"

Winnie tilted her head and thought for a while, then said, "Well, that's right, I miss my grandfather and grandmother a lot, so let's fly back to kànkàn them this weekend, so that we won't delay work."

Qin Shiou really wanted to give Wei Ni a thumbs up, this girl is really hardworking, she doesn't work too hard, compared to himself, the owner of the fishing ground, who is just here to dawdle.

In the next two days, everyone will be busy with things. Wei Ni and Liu Shuyan are going to work, Mao Weilong and Ouyang Hai are in touch to start a farm, and Qin Shiou is leading the fishermen to go out to catch fish, or drive away those fishing boats that enter the fishing ground to steal.

Almost every day, regardless of day or night, the radar can detect stolen fishing boats. Byrd is exhausted. He is on standby almost all day long. As soon as he finds a problem, he immediately drives a helicopter to drive those fishing boats away.

Most of the fishing boats will leave obediently after being discovered, and some thorns will continue to poach regardless, so that the rocket fire extinguisher will come in handy.

Those who come to steal are small fishing boats. This kind of fishing boat is flexible and has small targets, so it is not easy to be detected.

But the fishing ground has radar, let alone a fishing boat, even a big bird can be caught by the radar, so as long as a boat enters the fishing ground, it can be detected immediately. And this kind of fishing boat is easy to deal with, a rocket fire extinguisher can affect a boat.

Shaq didn't think this would work, so he contacted Bigfoot Reyek and bought more than a thousand warning balls.

This kind of warning ball is a standard equipment for private fishing grounds. It has a diameter of one meter. After being in the sea, you can stay in place. (to be continued...)