Chapter 104 Love Is a Self-Education

2018, July 13, Weibo.

An ordinary person: "When love seems good, it is not love, but wisdom and morality."

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During the summer vacation of freshman year, Ning Youguang and Xia Yan were in Europe.

Leisure, pleasure, contemplation, decadence.

during travel.

Ning Youguang asked Xia Yu: "Sister Yuyu, do you know why people love to travel?"

Xia Yan replied without hesitation: "Because everyone likes the novelty during the journey."

Ning Youguang continued to ask: "Then do you know why everyone likes this novelty?"

Xia Yan shook his head: "I never thought about it."

"People like novelty because it can grab people's attention in time and make people live in the moment."

"it seems to be like this."

"Matt Hager said that if you want to conquer the anxieties in your life, live in the moment, with every breath you take."

Xia Yan was thoughtful.

She found that during this period of traveling in Europe with you, she really didn't miss the scumbag much.

If she didn't miss him, she wouldn't feel any sadness at all.

...

At the end of the journey, return to Jincheng on the plane.

Xia Yan said to Ning Youguang, who was sitting next to him and looking at the blue sky outside the plane window: "Yes, thank you very much for being by my side all the time. Now that I think about it, after seeing his true face clearly, I am very grateful for what life has given me. I took such a class. I decided to work hard, and I will be the same me who loves life, is full of energy and happiness!"

Ning Youguang turned his head, looked at her and smiled slightly: "So, this matter has changed?"

Xia Yan took a deep breath, and also smiled: "Yes, it's time to turn the page! I will never ask about these things again, nor will I mention them again, and I will try not to think about them as much as possible, thank you Accompaniment and guidance during this time!"

After a long silence, she went on to say: "I'm a little happy now. This not-so-good relationship only wasted three and a half years of my life, but it made me understand many things in the relationship. In life, I think these lessons are worthwhile."

"Yes, it's really a little thing in life, a very small thing."

"Yes, I now feel that I have made great progress in viewing love and life concepts!"

Ning Youguang's clear eyes were full of admiration: "I also experienced the feeling of not being entangled with garbage, right? Garbage will turn you into garbage."

"I don't want to."

"Then live the rest of your life."

...

2018, August 06, Weibo.

[An ordinary person: "Love is a self-education. No matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life. It is no accident. He will teach you something, so I also believe that no matter I Wherever I go, that is the place I should go, experience some things I should experience, and meet the people I should meet.]

In a one-person apartment in Boston, USA.

Shi Wangyue read Ning Youguang's Weibo with a light smile, and clicked a thumbs up.

After doing all this, he went back to her Weibo main page and swiped, and found that he didn't miss any new content from her, so he returned to his own Weibo page and posted a Weibo:

[A person who likes the ordinary: "Some people say that liking makes people brave, but it seems that this is not the case with me now. Liking makes people timid and never speaks out."]

Fortunately, there are Weibo and the Internet.

Even if he was thousands of miles away, he could still see the messages she sent.

This way he knew that he didn't cut off contact with her today.

...

After the two cousins ​​came back from Europe.

Xia Yan didn't go on with the salty fish and lie down at home, but wrote his resume, went out to apply for a job, found a corresponding job and went to the company for an internship.

Everything that happens in this world has two sides.

Breaking up in love will make Xia Yan painful, and it will also make her grow.

After returning from Europe, she packed up her broken heart, began to think about life again, and decided to try a life that she had never imagined before.

After all, Miss Xia is a family lover, and she didn't go to a faraway place for her internship, but she was looking for a job in Jincheng.

This reassured Ning Youguang a lot.

She leaves early and returns late every day, and is basically not at home during the day.

Although the family members thought it was a bit unexpected for the eldest girl to go out to find a job, they were very supportive.

Xia Yan experienced a sense of novelty in the internship life.

When I first entered the workplace, the work was very busy and the salary was not much.

But it made her grow up faster, and it just happened to make her not think so much about other messy things.

This summer.

In the heartache, Xia Yan understood a truth of life:

[No matter how bad life experience is, it will eventually pass with the passage of time. ]

...

The children get older every year, and the older ones get older every year.

The freshman summer vacation lasts for two months.

Half of it, Ning Youguang used to accompany Xia Yan out of the shadow of broken love, and the other half was used to concentrate on being with the elders at home.

After traveling back to Jincheng, she spent time with the Ningxia family.

Sometimes, she would spend part of her time going to Xie's house to accompany Xie Yizun and Xia Youqing.

When dealing with her family, she tried her best to be as equal as possible.

She knew that now might be the most leisurely time in her life. If she didn't spend it with her family, when she got busy in the future, she wouldn't have so much time for them.

Life is impermanent, and in the future, we don't know when or what uncontrollable things will happen.

...

This morning, Xie's villa.

When Ning Youguang got up and washed up, the first thing he did was to go to the back garden of the villa to help Grandma Xie, who had rheumatoid arthritis and couldn’t walk well two days ago, carefully plant the fruits and vegetables she planted. watered.

After pouring water, when she entered the house through the back door, when she passed the public restroom on the first floor, she heard Xie Yizun shouting from inside: "Sister, sister."

She stopped and asked, "Why?"

"No more toilet paper."

She had no choice but to go to the cupboard and get a bucket of toilet paper for Young Master Xie.

When he came back, before he even went to the bathroom, he heard Xie Yizun repeating Tang poems in it: "It's noon on the day of hoeing, and the sweat drips down to the soil..."

"..." Ning Youguang was speechless for a moment, then walked to the door of the bathroom and stood still, "Yiyi, you flush into the water, I'll get you toilet paper in."

"Understood." The sound of Xie Yizun's milk smell coming from the facade, and the sound of the toilet flushing.

She stood at the door for a while, "I'm a girl, you're a boy, I can't look at your ass, so I closed my eyes and came in, you have to tell me how to get out."

Xie Yizun responded obediently and cleverly: "Understood."

Ning Youguang pushed open the bathroom door with his eyes closed, and walked in slowly.

Xie Yizun also expressed precise guidance for her to come to him.

After handing the toilet paper to his hand, Xie Yizun started asking again: "Sister, help me wipe my ass."

"Do your own thing."

Ning Youguang turned around and quickly left the bathroom.

Xie Yizun has already joined the big class.

After the age of three, the opposite sex cannot meet naked.

She's not going to wipe his ass.

When returning to the living room.

She saw Xia Youqing, Xia Youqing's manager, and workers in the living room.

The worker was clasping his hands, standing next to Xia Youqing nervously, and said incoherently, "I'll mend it, it can be mended, and you can wear it after mending it, madam."

Xia Youqing handed her the cashmere cardigan in his hand, and said, "Forget it, mend it yourself and wear it yourself."

Auntie's eyes showed joy, but she said embarrassedly: "It's very expensive."

Xia Youqing said: "It's not expensive, just a few hundred yuan."

Hearing this, the agent on the side froze for a moment.

The worker clutched his chest, breathed a sigh of relief, and happily left with the cashmere sweater Xia Youqing gave him.

After the workers left, Xia Youqing looked calm on the surface, but was betrayed by her body language. She knocked over the coffee in her hand.

When she went to the bathroom to deal with the stains all over, changed into clean clothes and returned to the living room, her face was still a little ugly.

Ning Youguang raised his eyebrows: "What's wrong with Burberry's new cashmere cardigan?"

Xia Youqing suppressed his anger and said: "I asked her to take the label of the cardigan and cut it, but I didn't expect to cut a hole for me."

"No wonder, a few hundred dollars is not enough." After Ning Youguang finished speaking, he lowered his head and slightly raised the corners of his mouth.

It's been a while, but Qingqing can control her emotions.

Xia Youqing picked up the phone, and ordered a new cashmere cardigan on Burberry's official website again, feeling extremely depressed. Only then did his mood improve.

Her manager was very winking. She didn't speak the whole time just now, and was quietly in front of the wallflower.

Seeing that the complexion of his own artist has improved, he looked at the delicate and picturesque girl who was sitting quietly drinking tea, her eyes were bright and she tried Xia Youqing: "Qingqing, have you ever thought about letting your daughter join our entertainment?" play around?"

Xia Youqing glanced at her sideways, with all kinds of flair: "She is not suitable for entering the entertainment circle, do you know why?"

"Why?" The manager was stunned.

The girl in front of her has such a superb appearance, a perfect figure, and that unforgettable temperament, she should be the one that attracts everyone's attention by nature.

Isn't it the most suitable seedling in the entertainment industry?

Xia Youqing looked at the calm daughter next to her with disgust, and said slowly: "Have you ever seen an eighteen-year-old girl who doesn't like to dress up or put on makeup? You can buy three dozen of the same clothes and change them at home. The body shape remains the same, and it can be worn for about fifty years. Is there such a female star in the entertainment industry who doesn't care about appearance?"

And young girls who don't like to dress up?

Still a pretty girl.

The manager stared at Ning Youguang quite curiously: "It's fortunate that your daughter is a fairy, and she looks good in linen, otherwise, with a little shivering, who would dare to waste her flesh like this."

Xia Youqing finally found a chance to complain about her daughter's clothes: "Tell me, who is the girl nowadays who doesn't dress up to death? If she has money, she can buy, buy, buy, clothes, bags, cosmetics, shoes, etc., buy them in season The new style is not enough, and limited edition customization is needed, how can there be anything like her, who has everything, but wants nothing.”

The agent didn't understand at first, but now he laughed, "It's really rare, but, to be honest, this kid's life is really simple enough."

She is older than Xia Youqing, and Ning Youguang is indeed still a child in her eyes.

"Is that simple? That's obviously lazy, too lazy to bother." Xia Youqing was speechless.

"Isn't that good? You won't be tired if you don't toss around." The manager looked at the girl beside him who let them discuss without blinking, and the appreciation in his eyes deepened, "Let me tell you, anyone who can Don't live so complicated if you live a simple life, how tiring, look at the people in our circle, they look glamorous on the surface, but whoever accepts the job, goes back to the room and closes the door, isn't it because he wants the whole world to ignore him? It's just comfortable."

"That's exactly what you said." Xia Youqing thought about it for a while, and felt that what the manager said made sense.

"So, it's good to be like your girl. She doesn't have so many desires, so she can easily satisfy them, and she can live the life she wants to live as she likes. She can live as she likes, without looking at anyone's face, and without living in In anyone's evaluation, it is pure enough and free enough, this is the state that many people pursue all their lives, but they probably can't get it."

Thinking that there are two such big children in his family, the agent couldn't help but say a few more words: "So those of us who are elders, don't use our own values ​​to judge the lives of young people like them, otherwise, Why do we work so hard? We don’t want the children to live an easy life. But if they can live a relaxed and comfortable life early, why should we forget the original idea and force them to pursue these false names? They like it Fortunately, if I don’t like it, it might hurt the relationship between each other.”

Speaking of this, the manager also noticed that Xia Youqing's daughter probably wouldn't enter the entertainment circle.

She sees no desire in her.

...

Not long after the fall semester of the sophomore year, Ning Youguang went to the head teacher's office to hand in the materials.

But I didn't want to hear the head teacher's voice from outside the door.

He said: "Jiang Wei, I know that your family is very difficult, but you still have to find a way to pay the tuition fee. I have tried my best to apply to the school for a one-month delay. It will be a month in a few days, and if you don’t pay the tuition, the teacher will be very embarrassed.”

Jiang Wei: "Teacher... I, I will find a way."

She immediately ran away lightly and hid in the next stairwell.

Later, when she heard Jiang Wei's footsteps leaving the head teacher's office, she waited another ten minutes before entering the head teacher's office and handing over the materials to the head teacher.

That night, the girls' dormitory.

After eleven o'clock at night, everything is silent.

Ning Youguang was on the bed and heard Jiang Wei's suppressed sobbing from the lower bunk.

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The next day, the National University of Science and Technology was approaching the end of school in the afternoon.

Jiang Wei plucked up his courage and walked into the head teacher's office with heavy steps.

The head teacher was sitting on an office chair working, and when he saw her coming, he immediately smiled.

Jiang Wei lowered his head, and quickly said what he had been brewing for a long time: "Teacher, can you give me a little more time, our family..."

But I didn't want to, before I finished speaking, I heard the head teacher's cheerful voice: "Jiang Wei, there is no need for grace."

Her heart sank, so she had to grit her teeth and tell the head teacher the real situation at home: "Teacher, the construction site in our hometown is not doing well this year, and my father always has nothing to do. I begged the foreman for a long time, but he didn't give me any money. He said yes. Now there is no money at all, I know it's embarrassing for you, but our family has thought of all the ways we can think of."

As she spoke, her tears dripped down.

The head teacher got up, walked to her side and patted her on the shoulder lightly, and said in a soothing voice: "Don't worry, there is a kind person who is willing to subsidize the tuition and miscellaneous expenses of 20 poor students in our school for four years, and you are one of them." One, from now on, you can just study hard and don’t have to worry about tuition fees anymore, and you can tell your family the good news later, so that they can feel at ease.”

Jiang Wei was stunned, suffering from childhood to adulthood.

She never thought that there would be a day when she would turn around from time to time.

She can encounter such a good thing.

"Teacher, I... thank you so much for that kind person, and thank you and the school, I..." She kept bowing to the class teacher with tears in her eyes.

The head teacher took a step back and did not accept her big gift, but said with a smile: "You don't need to thank me and the school, just thank that kind person in your heart. Ability can also help other people in need. As for... the kind person, she donated anonymously, and the school cannot disclose her name."

I can't know the identity information of the kind person who helped me, so I won't be able to personally repay him in the future.

Disappointed, Jiang Wei had no choice but to pray repeatedly in his heart that the kind-hearted man would live a safe and happy life and his business would flourish.

She thought: "To help 20 college students pay their tuition fees for four years at once, he must be a big businessman who likes to do good deeds."

Then, after thanking the head teacher, the school, and the kind people sincerely, I left the head teacher's office happily.

...

It was dinner time after school.

Because today is so lucky and so happy.

Jiang Wei left the homeroom teacher's office and went to the school cafeteria. He extravagantly ordered two dishes of fried rice at the Xiaochao stall, one was her long-favorite sweet and sour pork ribs, and the other was stewed salted fish and eggplant.

Two small stir-fries and a bowl of white rice. After the chef cooked them, they neatly placed them on a green plate with a tangy aroma.

In the cafeteria, Jiang Wei happily took his meal from the window. When he was looking for a seat with the plate, he happened to see his roommate Ning Youguang eating in the cafeteria at the moment.

There was an empty seat across from her.

After hesitating for a while, she sat down across from her with a dinner plate: "Ning Youguang, what a coincidence, you are eating too."

The girl raised her head, and there was a gentle smile on her beautiful hibiscus face: "What a coincidence."

There were also two dishes on the plate in front of her, a bowl of white rice.

Two vegetables are all vegetarian, one is stir-fried seasonal vegetables, and the other is moonlight in lotus pond.

I ate half of the white rice.

Jiang Wei generously placed the plate between the two of them, "All you eat are vegetables, would you like to try my sweet and sour pork ribs?"

Ning Youguang smiled lightly, picked up the chopsticks and generously picked up a piece of rich sweet and sour pork ribs on her plate, "Then I won't be polite."

After finishing speaking, she put the ribs into her mouth, and after eating them leisurely, she nodded, "It's delicious."

Seeing that she didn't refuse, Jiang Wei smiled brighter, "Then you eat more."

Then, she picked up another two or three yuan for her with unused chopsticks.

"Enough is enough, I'm almost full."

Ning Youguang actually doesn't like meat, the reason why he is willing to eat his roommate's ribs is because he knows that she is in a good mood today.

She needs someone to share her happiness and joy. 1314

Happy New Year, everyone, I wish you peace and joy, good luck, fulfillment of wishes, and fearlessness...

Wish: In 2022, all the good things in the world belong to you!