Nine Hundred and Seven. Sensible
Latest website: What Zheng Shan didn’t know was that when he was still in Moscow, his mother often introduced partners to Lao Wu.
A few times, I even brought people directly to my home, which made Lao Wu very uncomfortable.
Zhong Huixiu couldn't help it, because the few times she introduced him before, she was always rejected by Lao Wu because she was busy with work. Even if it was arranged, Lao Wu would not go to meet.
That's why my mother thought of bringing the person home directly.
When they were sleeping at night, Zheng Shan and Yan Qingqing told what Lao Wu had just thought, and Yan Qingqing understood it as soon as she thought about it.
After telling Zheng Shan about the matter, Zheng Shan finally understood the reason.
"Let me tell you, this little girl doesn't have a coy character, and you're not that mean sister-in-law. Why would you suddenly want to go out and live alone?" Zheng Shan said suddenly.
Yan Qingqing pinched Zheng Shan angrily, "Are you still suspicious of me?"
"No, no, my wife is the best." Zheng Shan quickly begged for mercy.
Yan Qingqing has a very good relationship with Lao Wu's sister-in-law. There is no conflict like ordinary people. The most important thing is that Yan Qingqing has never regarded Lao Zheng's family as outsiders, but as real family members.
Yan Qingqing and Zheng Shan laughed and laughed for a while, then thought of something, "But you really need to talk to mom about this matter. I don't think it's the same thing to rush the fifth child like this."
"Huh? What do you say?" Zheng Shan looked at Yan Qingqing in confusion.
Yan Qingqing said: "Lao Wu must have her own ideas. Don't treat her like a child. She has grown up now."
"No matter what she chooses in the future, it will be her own business. If Lao Wu doesn't have any opinions on her own, it's a good thing for you to help make the decision."
"But you also know Lao Wu. She is not without her own opinions. Also, don't constrain her with the ideas of the older generation. Lao Wu has her own ideas."
"The most important thing is, do you want Lao Wu to marry someone she doesn't like just to make ends meet?"
This last sentence spoke to Zheng Shan's heart. Indeed, no matter what, Zheng Shan hoped that Lao Wu would marry someone she liked and live a happy life.
Yan Qingqing saw Zheng Shan's thoughtful look and continued: "It is precisely now that Lao Wu has grown up and matured, so he has not quarreled with his mother on these matters.
But Lao Wu definitely doesn't want to make a living, she has her own ideas. "
"The most important thing is, are you still worried that your sister won't be able to get married? No matter what, even if the fifth child is ten years older, or even twenty years old, as long as the fifth child wants to, she will definitely be able to get married."
Zheng Shan said: "There is nothing wrong with what you said. My sister has absolutely no worries about getting married, and she can't be married just by anyone who wants to."
"Yeah, if that's the case, then why not give her a few years to find her own happiness?" Yan Qingqing took the opportunity to say.
Zheng Shan understood, but still said: "Is this what she told you?"
"No, do you need to say this? You can understand it just by looking at it." Yan Qingqing said.
Zheng Shan said: "But why doesn't she explain it to her mother herself?"
"Hey, I think you are the one who is stupid." Yan Qingqing sighed.
Zheng Shan looked at his wife in confusion. According to his understanding of Lao Wu, she would not hold back on things like these.
Seeing this, Yan Qingqing also knew that he was stuck in a fixed mindset and reminded: "I have already said that Lao Wu has matured and she is no longer the little girl she used to be."
"Whether it's you or your parents, they have always regarded Lao Wu as the child of the past."
Gu "Lao Wu didn't tell her parents in person, firstly because she was mature and grown up and didn't want to quarrel with her parents because of this matter."
Zheng Shan interrupted her and said, "It's not like my parents can't understand. As long as they explain clearly, there won't be any quarrel."
"Is it true that what I said before was all in vain?" Yan Qingqing seemed a little angry. Why is this guy so ignorant about this matter?
"Lao Wu has grown up and matured, but didn't I say it? You and your parents have always treated Lao Wu as a child. If she tells her parents these things, she won't be taken seriously. Maybe it's just Treat it like a child’s tantrum.”
Zheng Shan suddenly realized that this seemed to make perfect sense.
In fact, in the final analysis, Zheng Shan still does not really regard Lao Wu as a mature adult.
However, Yan Qingqing saw this matter very clearly, so he analyzed the matter thoroughly.
"Lao Wu is sensible, but we can't let her hold it in forever. It's not fair to her. In this case, you, the elder brother, need to help your sister solve this problem." Yan Qingqing said.
Zheng Shan thought for a while and said, "Okay, let me tell my parents."
After finishing speaking, he looked at his wife and said, "My wife is smarter, come on, give her a kiss."
"Have you brushed your teeth?"
"Brush it. If you don't believe me, just smell it."
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The next morning, while eating, Zheng Shan thought of what Yan Qingqing said last night.
After dinner, Zheng Shan waited for Lao Wu to go to work before talking about this matter to his parents.
"Now that the fifth child is not old, and she is very angry, you are worried about forcing her to find someone to live with, right?"
"And if this happens, life won't last long."
Zheng Shan could only advise his parents from these aspects, and also mentioned Yan Qingqing's point of view.
Zhong Huixiu said: "We are doing it for her own good. It's not the same thing to live alone forever, no matter how old you are."
Zheng Shan said quickly: "Of course I know you are doing this for her own good, but you should also think more about it. Lao Wu is not in a hurry to get married now."
"And it's not like we can't get married. Not much else. As long as Lao Wu wants to, I can bring most of the young talents in the world over to Lao Wu for a blind date. But what's the point in that? Lao Wu If you don’t like it, you can’t force it no matter how hard you try.”
"And Lao Wu is sensible now, so we don't need to worry about these things."
Zheng Shan slowly said these truths. This matter is most suitable for Zheng Shan. Zheng Weijun doesn’t know much about Lao Wu. After all, he has been busy with business these years and has not lived together. Not understanding enough.
My parents didn't find it convincing when he said this.
"Okay, okay, can't we just leave it alone? You just dislike us for being nosy." Zhong Huixiu seemed very angry.
But Zheng Shan knew that his mother had listened to this, but she just couldn’t save face. After all, if it were really counted, it was him who thought he was doing the best for his daughter, but in fact he brought a lot of trouble to his daughter. It's troublesome, at least it makes my daughter very annoyed.
But her daughter was sensible, and she just made jokes and did not argue with her. This not only made her happy, but also made her a little disappointed. Although she realized that the children had grown up before, she was not as profound as now.