Chapter Five Hundred and Sixty Fifth: The Loved One Is Confident
When Liu Zhao came back, it was already very late, almost three o'clock.
"Haven't you rested yet?"
With a chill in his body, he walked into the upper room.
Gu Jiu sat on the couch and flipped through a book, while Yu Geer lay on the couch, holding a charcoal pencil to write and draw, very energetic.
Gu Jiu pursed her lips in the direction of Brother Yu, "Your son is in high spirits. Isn't he going to keep the year old today? I'll do whatever he wants without stopping him."
Liu Zhao took off his outer robe, washed his face with hot water, and sat down next to Gu Jiu after feeling comfortable all over.
"Is he being naughty again?"
Gu Jiu laughed, "It's not like you don't know, your son has big ideas, and he won't listen to anyone who says it doesn't suit him."
Fortunately, Brother Yu is not a bear child, he will not mess around outside, and will have a sullen face. For those who don't like it, they don't even have a look in their eyes.
Liu Zhao rolled up his sleeves, "Why don't you beat him up before the new year arrives."
Anyway, idle is idle, let's play with the children.
Brother Yu raised his head and looked towards Liu Zhao. At a young age, there was a little bit of inquiry and doubt in his eyes.
Then, he looked at Gu Jiu again, his eyes were innocent and pitiful. The bright black eyes seemed to be filled with tears in the next second.
Gu Jiu's heart softened, and she quickly comforted her: "Today is Chinese New Year, no one beats you. Be good, brother Yu, keep playing."
Brother Yu wiped his eyes, "Don't hit me, be good."
"Okay, we won't fight. Brother Yu is the best."
Brother Yu didn't smile, he just lowered his head and continued to scribble.
Gu Jiu lowered his voice and said to Liu Zhao: "You see, don't talk nonsense in front of him from now on."
Liu Zhao chuckled, followed Gu Jiu and lowered his voice, "Such a young child, with so many thoughts, just owes a lesson."
Gu Jiu rolled his eyes at him, "You were probably similar to him when you were young, you were not very obedient children. I guess you are worse than Brother Yu."
Liu Zhao was very upset, "I was much stronger than him when I was young."
"Then why does the queen mother always say that you are not likable since you were young? I give you porridge, but you want to eat noodles. I give you meat,
You prefer soup. Let you study, but you run to dance with knives and guns. If you tell you to play with your younger brothers, you will make them cry, and you will drive away a few nurses, leaving only one..."
When Liu Zhao was young, he should have belonged to the kind of child who was naughty, thoughtful, and would never follow adults blindly.
This kind of child is definitely not a good child in the traditional sense.
What does a good child look like in the eyes of adults?
Obedient and sensible.
At the age of enlightenment, just sit in the school honestly and read and read, and you can get full marks in the exam.
Do what your parents call you, behave like the most exquisite doll, and don't need your parents to worry about it.
Obviously, Liu Zhao is not a good boy in the traditional sense.
In the eyes of the elders, not only is he not a good boy, but he is also a bad boy who always loves to cause trouble, anger his parents, and fight against them.
In addition, he doesn't bother to say nice words, soft words to make people happy, and he will only go against his parents.
No wonder Empress Pei always said that Liu Zhao was not likable since childhood. This dislike continues to this day.
The relationship between people is amazing.
If you don't like a person since you were a child, it is very likely that this dislike will accompany you as you grow up and become an adult.
Even in old age, you may still not like this person.
If you were a child, you especially liked someone. Even when I grow up later, I know that this person is not as good as he looked when he was a child, and he even did disgusting things.
But because of this love, it is difficult for you to hate this person. At most it is annoying.
In the same way, if an adult doesn't like a child, no matter what the reason is, there is a high probability that the child will still not like it when he grows up.
Much the same is true of the love of parents for their children.
Even if it is a biological child, when the child is young, he is not likable and cannot be liked by his parents. There is a high probability that this child will still not be liked by his parents after he grows up.
No matter how good and hard the child is when he grows up, if he doesn't like it, he doesn't like it.
The child whose parents liked since childhood, even if he grows up to be incompetent, and even eats, drinks, prostitutes and gambles, he can still get the greatest tolerance and help from his parents.
As long as the child improves a little bit, improves a little bit, and even only needs to be filial, a hundred yuan, or even no money, and say a few nice words, this child is the best child in the parents' hearts, and all other children can't compare.
Parents will willingly put their coffin books out to help this child.
Even if the fact is that this child who eats, drinks, whores and gambles is the worst of all the children.
But if this child is coaxed and said a few nice words, without any real dedication and filial piety, the parents' love for this child will last for decades.
This situation is common in families with many children.
In the final analysis, feelings are too mysterious and completely irrational.
If you like it, you like it, if you don't like it, you don't like it, and you can't do anything fake.
Even if the child you like is a scumbag, the parents still look forward to his well-being and are willing to give him the best.
Children who don't like it, even if they poop and urinate at the front of the hospital bed, serve food and drink, and do their best, they may not get a sincere smile or a good word from their parents.
Maybe the parents will take it for granted to squeeze the filial child and subsidize the child they like the most.
The human heart is made of flesh, not produced by machines. Without the love scale, it is impossible to make a bowl of water level, and there is no way to divide the love into equal parts.
"Because I'm an unpleasant person."
Liu Zhao said this very easily, without any burden.
He never seemed to care about why others didn't like him.
This is rare.
When people are young, it is inevitable that they will care about who likes them and who doesn't like them. That person doesn't like himself, why?
But in Gu Jiu's memory, Liu Zhao was never confused by this question for even a second.
Gu Jiu pointed at Brother Yu, then pointed at Liu Zhao and asked, "Do you think Brother Yu cares whether we love him or not?"
Liu Zhao was silent for a moment.
After the silence, he laughed, "He is still young, and he can't tell what is the most important thing."
Gu Jiu shook her head and said disapprovingly: "Different ages have different needs. Brother Yu needs to eat and play now.
His life, eating and playing is perfect. Eating and playing are the most important things to him, and he knows this better than anyone else. You try to see if you don't feed him or let him play, will he turn upside down.
When he is a little older, enlightenment reading, with the comparison with his peers, new needs will naturally arise. You can't deny his needs just because he is still young, thinking that his current needs are not important. "
Liu Zhao nodded and said, "You are right."
This is not distracting at all, very perfunctory.
Gu Jiu rolled her eyes and complained: "Brother Yu is like you, many old people in the house say so. Brother Yu is so cute, how could anyone not like it. It must be because you were too mischievous and disobedient when you were young, That's why it's not likable."
"Haha... I guess I was a tyrant in the mansion when I was young."
Looking at Liu Zhao's small eyes, he seems quite complacent.
Gu Jiu laughed and said suddenly after laughing, "I will try my best to keep the bowl of water as level as possible."
She will have a second child, maybe even a third.
She dare not say that she treats every child equally. But she will try her best to treat everyone equally, and try to make a bowl of water equal.
Of course, children have different personalities, and parents have different standards and requirements for their children.
Liu Zhao suddenly leaned in front of Gu Jiu, "Are you comforting me?"
Gu Jiu was startled, and she tilted her head back, "You suddenly came over and scared me. I won't comfort you, and you don't need comfort."
Liu Zhao smiled and pointed at the child, "Is he doing well?"
"Very good, free development."
"It's too late." Liu Zhao is definitely a strict father, never lenient when beating up children.
Brother Yu has been beaten several times.
But this child still holds grudges.
Every time he was beaten by his father, at least he would not talk to his father for three days, Liu Zhao.
But after three days, he would still throw himself into Liu Zhao's arms, acting like a baby. Just be nice now and then. Most of the time, Brother Yu is making his own decisions.
It takes a lot of patience to stand such a child with personality, and it is normal to be tired.
No wonder Empress Pei always said that Liu Zhao was not pleasing.
A disobedient child, in the eyes of his parents, is always unable to get close.
But Gu Jiu likes Brother Yu's idea very much.
"Children may not understand, but they must have their own ideas."
"In your eyes, Brother Yu, everything is good."
"Don't you think Brother Yu is not good?" Gu Jiu asked him back.
Liu Zhao thought for a while, "It's good, but I need to be beaten."
Gu Jiu laughed out loud, "How much do you want to beat him?"
I really want to!
Liu Zhao would not admit that Yu Geer's meaty buttocks give him a sense of accomplishment in fighting.
He really doesn't mind being a strict father.
Gu Jiu's whole body was nestled in the soft bed, and her whole body was relaxed.
"What gift did you give your mother?"
"You saw it, two screens."
Gu Jiu was surprised, "Is there nothing else besides this? I thought you would add something in private."
Liu Zhao shook his head, "No extra, it's a waste of money."
Gu Jiu was speechless, "When I enter the palace tomorrow morning, I will give my mother another gift."
"You don't have to send it."
"Why don't I have to give it. I'm a daughter-in-law, so I should give gifts. "
Liu Zhao frowned.
Gu Jiu said: "I know you can't get close to your mother, but you only prepared two screens for the New Year's gift. That's your fault. In terms of etiquette, you will be criticized."
"Isn't Your Highness often criticized by others?" Liu Zhao didn't care at all.
Gu Jiu shook his head and said, "It's not what it used to be. You're a very weird person. You obviously do your errands very beautifully, and you've considered all the details. But when you treat your blood relatives, you're always perfunctory, so that people can't see you. There is no sincerity at all. This is not good. Anyway, you should also put some thought into the gift. You can’t give a gift and still have people gossiping.”
Liu Zhao laughed, "Because no matter how much energy is spent preparing gifts, the other party will never be satisfied."
"If you are perfunctory every time, she will have even more reason to pick on you. It's hard to shut up other people's mouths. We just want to have a clear conscience and do what we should do well."
Liu Zhao took her hand, "I'm curious, why are you able to cover everything?"
"Because it doesn't take much time to gain more, why not?"
Gu Jiu rolled his eyes at him, "Don't use your man's thinking to think about women. You have to listen to me when it comes to gift giving."
"Okay, I'll listen to you from now on."
Gu Jiu nodded, a child can be taught.
Sometimes Liu Zhao's thinking of a straight man is scary.
Liu's family has a lot of problems, and he has a lot of them. He wants to control everything, and if he doesn't like it, he just slaps him in the face, and he refuses to even make a detour.
please!
Empress Pei is none other than her own mother.
A word of filial piety is like the top of Mount Tai, how can it not be treated with caution.
Regardless of what each of you thinks in your heart, you must save face.
It's not that it's not pleasing to the eye, but it's about to tear your face.
Mother and son, with a community of interests, naturally want to be harmonious.
As the saying goes, there are no permanent enemies, only permanent interests.
Putting aside emotional factors, seeing Empress Pei as a partner of interest, all problems were easily solved.
So when Gu Jiu faced Empress Pei, he was always calm and never angry.
Brother Yu was tired from playing, so he put the building blocks into the bamboo basket one by one.
Then he got out of the bed, climbed onto Gu Jiu's lap, went into her arms, and planned to sleep.
Gu Jiu laughed and supported him, "Are you tired from playing?"
Brother Yu nodded, "I want to sleep."
"We wash up before we go to bed. Look at your little hands, how dirty they are from playing with blocks."
Brother Yu half-closed his eyes, and when Gu Jiu let go, he fell back into her embrace.
Seeing that he was unbearably sleepy, Gu Jiu hurriedly asked the maid to call for hot water.
Together with Liu Zhao, she washed Brother Yu inside and out, changed into clean cashmere clothes, put him on the bed, and slept with him.